Talking With Your Partner About Peyronie's Disease

Due to the sensitive nature surrounding the symptoms of Peyronie's disease, it is rarely discussed and often goes untreated. Having a conversation about an intimate, sensitive matter is never easy. Your partner may become frustrated and angry when you attempt to speak with him. Be patient and supportive. If you suspect your partner may be suffering from Peyronie's disease the most important thing for both you and him to know is that help is available and the disease – even if severe – is treatable.

Here are some tips for broaching the topic with your partner:

Try to initiate the conversation outside of the bedroom when you are both relaxed and have time available.
Start by telling your partner what you’ve noticed. Have you or your partner been experiencing pain during sex? Have either of you been avoiding intimacy? Have you noticed a curvature in his penis during erection?
He may not want, or be able to talk about it. You can mention that you have heard about similar conditions that are treatable. Point him to this website and/or print out the symptoms for him to compare against.
Encourage him to speak with his physician to understand his condition and the treatments available.

For more information read urologist Caroline Ames Ryan, MD's "Peyronie's Disease from a Partner's Perspective."